April 11, 2014
Men, 4 Reasons Why We Aren’t Mad When There is No Round 2

Men, 4 Reasons Why We Aren’t Mad When There is No Round 2

I recently read a post from Damn Pops on Single Black Male titled, Ladies, This Can Be Why  ‘Round 2′ Doesn’t Happen” and I had to agree with a lot of what he had to say but I thought, “Why not tell the men why we aren’t mad when there isn’t a Round 2.”

We Couldn’t Wait For Round 1 To Be Over

Men, Why We Aren't Mad When There is No Round 2You thought you were putting it down but your were fucking like a jack rabbit.  Your ass was moving so…

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April 10, 2014
Your in Prision on a DATING WEBSITE?

Your in Prision on a DATING WEBSITE?

This can not be my life!  I signed up for a dating website and received a message from a man who just said, “Hello.”  Of course I looked at the pics before responding and I’m thinking to myself, “Why is he standing next to bunk beds? Why do they have numbers on them? Is that a prison shirt hanging off the bed? “

I immediately responded, “Where are your pics taken” and you could have knocked me…

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April 10, 2014
Parenting Through Heartbreak

Well, single mom, it’s happened again!  After carefully guarding your heart for so long, you slipped and fell in love.  You fell hard this time too, allowing yourself to actually imagine a future with this man.  But sadly, it didn’t last.  And now you’re nursing another broken heart.

Parenting Through Heartbreak

Right now, all you want to do is wallow in your pain.  You want to listen to Sade and sad Mary J. Blige songs,…

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April 9, 2014
To Tell or Not To Tell

To Tell or Not To Tell

I’ve decided to only contribute my thoughts and ideas once a month. It allows me to sit back and people watch and gather stimulating ideas and topics for us women to talk about.

A topic I wish to speak about is one that circulates through our community as sisters that continue to boggle my mind. I some what found myself in the middle of said situation and found that the sistah on the other end…

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April 4, 2014
Turned Out

Everywhere you look, folks are talking about being “turnt up”.  Well, turning it up is fine every once in a while.  But if you ask me, I’d rather be turned out!

No, I don’t mean turned out on drugs or by a pimp!  I mean turned out in a good way with some good, old-fashioned, mind-blowing, head-banging, thigh quivering, toe-curling, slap-yo-mama sex!

Do you remember the first guy who turned you…

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April 3, 2014
Reducing Stress: Tips for the Busy Single Mom

Reducing Stress: Tips for the Busy Single Mom

As a single mom, regardless of how hectic life gets, your children are always your number one priority. Unfortunately, this itself can add to the stress you’re already feeling from everything else going on in your life, especially when you feel like your busy schedule is interfering with your children’s happiness.

As hard as it may be, reducing stress as a busy single mom means having to learn to…

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April 2, 2014
Interview with Ariel C. Williams, Author of ‘The Girl Talk Chronicles’

Interview with Ariel C. Williams, Author of ‘The Girl Talk Chronicles’

 Introduce yourself.  Hi! My name is Ariel. I’m a 20s-something mom, freelance copywriter, blogger, and the author behind The Girl Talk Chronicles: How to Manage Love, Lust & Situations. Tell me about your book.The Girl Talk Chronicles is raw, honest, hilarious, and filled with plenty of love and life truths that most women in their 20s and 30s have experienced. It was written to dispel the…

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April 1, 2014
"We’re Not Exclusive but You Can’t Date Anyone Else"

“We’re Not Exclusive but You Can’t Date Anyone Else”

Per Wikipedia, the definition of dating is

…a form of courtship consisting of social activities done by two people with the aim of each assessing the other’s suitability as a partner in an intimate relationship or as a spouse. While the term has several meanings, it usually refers to the act of meeting and engaging in some mutually agreed upon social activity in public, together, as a couple.


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March 28, 2014
Good Vibrations

So, I was hanging out with a few of my girls last night.  There were seven us, all single or divorced except for two married ladies.  And we were a pretty diverse mix in terms of personalities: everything from sexually conservative to down-for-anything wild.

After a decadent dinner, the drinks started flowing.  We had some laughs.  We got caught up with each other’s lives.  We dished about our…

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March 27, 2014
Choosy Lovers Choose Condoms … Every Time

Choosy Lovers Choose Condoms … Every Time

My advice column recently received a letter from a self-described “overweight, Black woman in her late 30s”.  She admitted being aware of the dangers of unprotected sex, but kept finding herself in situations where her male partners were reluctant to use condoms.  Because of her age and size, she believed her dating options to be severely limited and so she felt pressured to oblige these men,…

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